The man had relations with his wife Eve,
and she conceived and bore Cain, saying,
I have produced a man with the help of the LORD.
Next she bore his brother Abel.
Abel became a keeper of flocks, and Cain a tiller of the soil.
In the course of time Cain brought an offering to the LORD
from the fruit of the soil,
while Abel, for his part,
brought one of the best firstlings of his flock.
The LORD looked with favor on Abel and his offering,
but on Cain and his offering he did not.
Cain greatly resented this and was crestfallen.
So the LORD said to Cain:
Why are you so resentful and crestfallen.
If you do well, you can hold up your head;
but if not, sin is a demon lurking at the door:
his urge is toward you, yet you can be his master.
Cain said to his brother Abel,
Let us go out in the field.
When they were in the field,
Cain attacked his brother Abel and killed him.
Then the LORD asked Cain,
Where is your brother Abel?
I do not know.
Am I my brother’s keeper?
The LORD then said:
What have you done!
Listen: your brother’s blood cries out to me from the soil!
Therefore you shall be banned from the soil
that opened its mouth to receive
your brother’s blood from your hand.
If you till the soil, it shall no longer give you its produce.
You shall become a restless wanderer on the earth.
Cain said to the LORD:
My punishment is too great to bear.
Since you have now banished me from the soil,
and I must avoid your presence
and become a restless wanderer on the earth,
anyone may kill me at sight.
the LORD said to him.
If anyone kills Cain, Cain shall be avenged sevenfold.
So the LORD put a mark on Cain, lest anyone should kill him at sight.
Adam again had relations with his wife,
and she gave birth to a son whom she called Seth.
God has granted me more offspring in place of Abel,
because Cain slew him.
The peace of the Lord be with you.
There is so much to learn from this passage from Genesis today. The thing that stands out for me is the destructive power that jealousy and resentment can have in our lives. I’ve had this happen to me on a couple of occasions in my adult life and it has been very negative. It left me feeling like there had been a mark put on my soul. At those times, I was very grateful for the sacrament of reconciliation so that I could go to the priest, talk about what was troubling me, and be relieved of this burden and ugliness.
As we see in the scripture passage, to harbor such an experience will lead to the destruction of ourselves and others. We do not need to carry the weight of this burden.
May God grant us the grace to see those times when we are overpowered by this and other destructive forces. May we actively seek his assistance for healing and reconciliation.
In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.